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arianvanptoday at 8:11 AM5 repliesview on HN

I only realized that dutch people are handful communicators when moving abroad. Apparently I do it unconsciously all the time.

For example we gesture when something tastes good and I don't even say "tastes good" out loud i just wave my hand next to my cheek. But quickly learnt that people think you're crazy in the head instead of complimenting the chef.

https://youtube.com/shorts/5a9Md32gSQg?is=fJ9BYQEt-CpEUE-g


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wkjagttoday at 1:20 PM

I also learned in an awkward way that waving my hand next to my cheek isn't an international sign for lekker. I moved to Canada about 20 years ago, and still sometimes do it, but apparently here it means you're signaling that someone is a little bit crazy.

vanderZwantoday at 11:14 AM

Now I wonder if mixed Italian-Dutch children have two different forms of communication by gestures. Would be interesting, especially since neither are true sign languages.

retiredtoday at 8:33 AM

Eating only half a pepernoot and putting it back in the bowl is crazy behavior.

In this case the gesture is to not speak with a mouth full of food, which is understandable.

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deafpolygontoday at 9:32 AM

Needs the sound! Otherwise, even other Dutch people will look crazy at you. :)