--force-with-lease serves no purpose.

If you are sure that the repo you are pushing to is a stable target (nobody else is accessing it), you just use --force.

If the repo you are pushing to is a moving target, you ... don't force push to it. Or else you warn all the repo users that you are about to rewrite history. Which means they not only should refrain from pushing, but have to be prepared for a second announcement which informs them that the rewrite is done; they must then fetch the rewritten head and fix up their unpublished work against the non-fast-forward change.

Now it may be that --force-with-lease allows you to sneak in non-fast-forward changes without losing newly introduced upstream changes: but that assumes it's a good idea to be doing that sort of thing without communicating with your team. I.e. as long as we can sneak in a non-fast-forward change without accidentally/unknowingly deleting anyone's work, we are peachy; no need to coordinate.