"Intuition" about how cryptography works is notoriously bad. Many intuitive things about cryptography are false, and many true things about cryptography are non-intuitive. For this reason it is difficult to seriously discuss cryptography when people are vaguely referring to what they intuitively hope to achieve, framed in terms of concrete constructions that are not secure.
This is also completely ignoring that designing secure systems is about MUCH more than selecting the right "hard problem". Concretely
> They intuit having to open two locks in series to get to the valuable stuff, not adding two different access paths that each suffice for access.
might mean requiring a much more complicated lock that, in its ideal implementation has the properties you want, but practically is easier to implement incorrectly, yielding a less secure scheme. Considerations of this form almost never appear, despite being very relevant to the end goal of protecting users.
Similarly, this "defense in depth" intuition is currently not particularly controversial for hybrid KEMs. it is currently quite controversial for hybrid signatures though. The intuitive story would work perfectly well for signatures though. So this intuition does not end up being particularly useful for understanding the actual discussion.
I don't disagree, but I think the folks who know this ought to remember the lay person perspective and try to address it more concretely.
Rather than rejecting the framing because they (we) aren't fluent in your jargon, provide a more constructive hint... E.g. "You may be thinking the symmetric cipher key is simply encrypted with the asymmetric cipher and concatenated to the bulk message. But, to mitigate known cryptographic system risks, modern solutions use specialized key encapsulation or key exchange methods (KEM) which are not directly encrypted messages containing key material."