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AkshayGeniusyesterday at 8:10 PM4 repliesview on HN

This sounds very interesting and very much in-line with what I’ve been musing as a soon-to-be father.

One question that comes to my mind is do your kids compare their experiences to their friends? If their friends have access to a laptop with internet, or a music subscription service with all the music constantly available (a la Spotify), do they not compare and ask you why their experiences must be so limited? Why do their friends get to be on iMessage and they just have a landline phone number.

These are the kinds of questions that worry me about how much the kids can truly buy in to this. But maybe I’m overthinking this.


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EvanAndersontoday at 2:03 AM

Re: the subscription music service

We got my daughter an FM radio when she was around 9. Turns out it's a novelty among her friends and she really enjoys using it. I find local commercial radio insipid but apparently the music they play is acceptable to her. The music on broadcast FM is tame enough that I wasn't worried about subject matter.

sejjeyesterday at 8:26 PM

Just tell them the truth, friend. You want to protect them, this is your family's way.

j45yesterday at 8:22 PM

It can be important to tell kids early that comparisons don't matter, that everyone's diffferent, and that's ok, and every family's different and that's ok.

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