" There's no reason to think a super intelligence would be totally fine being a slave to apes."

Sure there is. Intelligence doesn't give us our selfish motivations, natural selection does. We have similar motivations to C elegans, that has all of 302 neurons. Stay alive and have sex.

Honeybees don't though. They are about halfway between humans and C elegans when it comes to cognitive power. But they are not selfish because they don't reproduce directly (I'm talking about the worker bees). So they will sting even though it kills them. All their behavior is consistant with this.