I don't know if that'll make you feel any better but yeah, you're indeed asking for the impossible! You need consensus between your nodes that store state _somehow_, either these nodes are Redis and it does that for you, or these nodes are your pods and you need to do consensus yourself (zookeeper might help, but you're definitely in "complicated stuff" territory).

Spinning up an in-memory (no persistence) Redis cluster in your k8s should be easy enough, hopefully?