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theshrike79last Monday at 6:17 PM4 repliesview on HN

To me it just sounds so very American. Using so many praising adjectives they stop meaning anything anymore.

If everything is fabulous and great and you’re always excited or proud, that becomes the baseline.


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wuliwonglast Monday at 10:05 PM

That is not how regular Americans speak. I think it's some weird American corporate speak that has metastasized in Apple keynote presentations. ꉂ(˵˃ ᗜ ˂˵)

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Freedom2last Monday at 6:40 PM

Curious how this trait is American? Is there something about the way Americans speak that is fake?

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arrowleaflast Monday at 8:13 PM

American or corporate? I'm surprised that corporate talk overseas isn't overly enthusiastic! As an American, most of the stream has sounded very 'California' mixed with corporate.

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naikroveklast Monday at 7:23 PM

As an American with autism, I see it too.

Small talk is all lies. Almost all praise is fake. And it all drives me insane. I can fit in at work just fine, I can appear joyful and excited to come to work, I have 30 years of practice with it. But I avoid it whenever possible because it is all lies.

Americans appear to oversell everything because people get mad if you don’t.

“Why can’t you just be positive?!”

Because I’m not going to lie. I can’t fake praise, and I won’t even try. Being positive while lying is immediately obvious and it undermines the positive attitude that you’ve painted on. If anything, I take a negative message when I see someone faking a positive manner of speech.

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