"depreciating" is not being used in the right sense.
There is depreciation, which is taking the purchase price and dividing it across N number of years (typically 5). That's the D in EBITDA and is mostly used as a profitability calculation.
The depreciation of a GPU also gets mucked up in the current GPU financed market as well. DDTL loans. The people running the GPUs often don't even own the GPU, they lease it, so there is nothing for them to depreciate (D).
The analogy that a GPU is like a used car makes zero sense. There is no oil or tires to change on a GPU. They don't wear out in the same way that a rental car would. They are housed in climate controlled locations with clean power. They just don't fail the way that is portrayed in the press.
Useful life of a GPU is based on profitability. When does opex cost more than profitability?
Some companies, like mine, also have support contracts. Anything goes wrong with the GPU (or any part of the system), Dell comes and fixes it at no extra charge. We just migrate customers and workloads to hot spares while the parts are replaced.
As for compute going down in value... the 122TB of enterprise nvme and 2GB of ram in each server that I bought 2 years ago is now worth vastly more than I paid for it. I'm also renting my GPUs out for more money now due to supply being so tight and demand being so high.