alt Hacker NewsI disagree, I think being able to self-host it to some extent is very important.
Personal computing democratized the means of (software) production and enabled real upward class mobility for a lot of people.
The efforts happening now are threatening to completely lock up the ability to compute locally, seizing the means of production from us. That must not happen.
your parent said "You don't need to be able to self-host it", you countered with "I disagree, I think being able to self-host it to some extent"
Bro, I don't know what you're disagreeing with, the two statements can and should be true at the same time. It's not only unnecessary but also impossible for everyone to self-host, for the vast majority this isn't a necessity and it shouldn't be. Actually being stuck on self-hosting for all is mighty silly from economics standpoint, pushing on it can ruin the entire enterprise.
But being able to self host? Sure why not, if you insist and are ready to suffer... knock yourself out, but that's a socially insignificant act which doesn't scale, good only as a backup option.