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wvenabletoday at 4:40 PM2 repliesview on HN

My son, for example, has sensory issues and cannot tune out anything. The "you have to practice it" is like telling a paraplegic that if they just exercise more they'd be able to walk. People are different and have different needs.

> And I think that's really, really unhealthy, for them and for the rest of us.

Or maybe it's not. Maybe the rest of the world is unhealthy and this is a way to reclaim some personal healthiness.


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MarkusQtoday at 5:59 PM

"When we argue for our limitations, we get to keep them."

-- Evelyn Waugh

Paraplegics don't have the use of their limbs. Acting as if "sensory issues" are in the same category is grossly insensitive.

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exmadscientisttoday at 6:18 PM

I think that's an unusual scenario, and I'd ask you to consider that that's probably not the argument I was making.

Most of the dozens and dozens of people I see in daily life sealed away in their earbud pockets do not appear in any way to need to do that. I am certainly not seeing the full picture of every single person's life, but I do not think that every last one of them is incapable of meaningfully engaging with the world.

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