I would rather have some people suffer from not having care, than have way more people suffer from regretting the care, or more likely having no care but just mental anguish from being pushed into internal conflict about this at an early age. Bad as it sounds, we've already had to make plenty of calls like this.

Maybe 15 years ago there was an option to have neither, maybe we can go back to that. As it already is in some other countries.