>The point is that I find it difficult to believe that Gnome/KDE are that much worse.

Just because you find something hard to believe doesn't mean you're right about it.

>Please consider being more kind and charitable to others, before you make your own demands.

I only demand people talk in good faith. Is that too much to ask for? If I talk about Toyotas and people disagree with my take but use Lamborghinis as examples instead of the Toyotas I was originally talking about, that's a bad faith argument.