alt Hacker NewsAgreed. Simple CRUD is something that only shows up in the beginning of the project, everyone was told to use ORM for that purpose, business grow, and you had awkward requirements that require complex ORM features which might exist but requires deep dive into ORM library's corner case, or just straight not possible and makes you bang your head wishing you'd write SQL instead where it would have been obvious what to write.
The only good thing about ORM is the type safety, but I find rust's sqlx or java's jooq to be hitting the sweet spot.
But SQL is low level, eg. you can't dynamically pass in filters and construct statements without knowing what the query will be ahead of time. ORMs have query builders that allow you do dynamically construct SQL statement based on parameters, they allow avoiding N+1 queries by doing joins in memory and much more. It's just not possible with vanilla SQL unless you concatenate strings or have multiple versions of the same query for every situation. A good ORM is an abstraction layer above that gives you more powerful tools, it's like comparing high level OOP code vs machine code.