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alwatoday at 12:21 AM1 replyview on HN

Seems wise to experience at least a little bit of “functioning as an adult in the world” independently of phone habits…

It seems like, in this situation, we watch primarily non-phone-enabled virtues save the day: a clear sense of right and wrong, assertiveness, courage, steadiness in a tense situation, an attentive social environment with bystanders who both noticed and backed each other up…

Even having practiced some of those skills in moving through the world, I worry that, if I were a phone-carrying person, I’d be tempted to “just record it and let the internet sort it out.” Which is orthogonal to fixing the wrong in the moment.


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sheepttoday at 1:01 AM

The severity depends on where you are, even within a country, but in many places you can't authentically "function as an adult in the world" without a phone, unless you want to roleplay an adult from the previous century.

In some places, payment requires a phone. Tracking unreliable public transit requires a phone. Getting rideshare requires a phone.

The issue probably isn't the phone but letting them outside in the first place.