> Ok. How do I make it not load any of them? > How do I get it not to notify the car?

Get the Android Auto app and patch away the notification. It's just an app, after all. Running on your own hardware.

> Which is why my original comment said Android Auto sucks. > My complaint about the car manufacturer is that they allow the driving experience to be degraded with it.

So your default car navigator can do everything in your list, including launching a non-default app from your phone? That's some mighty car navigation system.