I've been trying binders instead of notebooks (especially the mini-binders from folks like Maruman). Binders allow you to easily remove and add pages (and tabs, dividers, etc). This gives you the satisfaction of making something aesthetically pleasing, while also knowing you can move a 'messy' page somewhere else.
Ok. Let me try to spoil you. You are looking for this https://plotterusa.com
And here is a review from Fatih Arslan at https://arslan.io/2025/02/24/plotter-notebook-system/