> responding "if you can't be bothered to write it, I can't be bothered to read it" really sets people off
That’s crazy, it seems like such an obviously fair policy to me. They rarely even read their own generated text. I don’t understand this mentality
Another human being took time from their life to try and help you
It wasn't as much time as you felt entitled to from them, so you responded by minimizing their contribution and being condescending. That upset them.
The problem here was not the other person.