Oh boy, how wrong you are.

> When I enjoy a meal

What food do you eat, and where do you eat it? How much does it cost? Culturally, where does it come from? Who works the kitchens? Who cleans the place?

> When I hang out with my family and friends, that isn't political.

Where do you hang out? Who else goes there? Who even are your friends?

> When I sit down to read a nice book with a cup of cocoa, that isn't political.

What book are you reading? Does the country you live produce the cocoa you are drinking? Do you know where it comes from?

Everything is political to an extent, even the reason we have this discussion in English when English is not my native language.

I am not saying you have to think about those things all the time; that would be exhausting. But ignoring it and pretend everything is separated into its own nice little happy vacuum is too naive.