Is this not a common trait among most of the high-level tech CEOs? We hear of lack of humanity across much of the tech industry when you get up to that level. All the stuff that is said about Musk, and all the others.
The main think I hear about Musk is that he supported a candidate people didn't like and has a lot of different mothers for his children. Compared to making EVs mainstream, helping paralysed people nteract with the world, reducing traffic in LV, cutting government fraud and making reusable rockets that's pretty thin.
If we are seeking role models, dont seek out petty people.