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burnt-resistoryesterday at 11:57 PM3 repliesview on HN

Don't engage in a parasocial relationship with your employer. They're not your friends.


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pibakertoday at 2:15 AM

People need to stop abusing "parasocial." It meant forming a one way "connection" with people who don't even perceive you, like TV hosts on the other side of the screen. This case is by definition not a parasocial relationship because obviously the employer heard him saying things!

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JumpCrisscrosstoday at 12:17 AM

> They're not your friends

Your co-workers can be your friends. But we're not obligated to be. If you're my friend and colleague, sure, vent to me. If we're not, I don't give a flyig fuck about your views on geopolitics or gender or whatever, particulalry if you owe me a deliverable, doubly so if you've chosen a hot-button issue nobody actually has any new takes on other than blind agreement or condemnation. (And unless they’re voiced outside work in a way that affects me, I don’t have a right to care about it either.)

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softwaredougtoday at 12:22 AM

I dunno, ketamine treatment for depression isn't that weird.

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