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ghaffyesterday at 5:25 PM1 replyview on HN

>why "going to a movie" is culturally thought of as an activity one does with a companion, even a date. Much like dining out in a sit-down restaurant.

Let me unpack a little bit.

I very rarely go to movies and really haven't for years. So it isn't a social activity so mostly won't except for the odd shoe in IMAX.

I will go see live theatre with someone or maybe a group. But am also perfectly happy to do so on my own.

As to meals? I'm so inured to solo meals with business travel I don't think twice. Enjoy eating with friend(s) whether in a business or purely social context. But it's not like I'm going to order room service or go to McDonalds if I don't have anyone to sit with.


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xp84yesterday at 6:06 PM

Yeah, I've reversed course on both those things now. I literally just tell my spouse, "I think tonight at 8 I'm going to go see Project Hail Mary" since I'm the only one interested in that kind of movie. And dine wherever I want when I'm alone.

I think it was a lot harder when I was 18 because I saw being alone as a reflection on my worth as a person.

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