I am glad for you at an individual level, but isn't part of this about understanding aggregate effects?

Neither you nor anyone can really know those without talking it out with people, to understand how all corners of the human experience are seeing things play out

If I were to just care if it's working out for me, that's perhaps like a farmer who's got a lot of dry good in storage being like "I'm all good" while not realizing how much trouble they're in if all their neighbors start starving after a drought...

Sounds like the fine-grain experience of being you is settled, but that doesn't say much about the larger coarse-grained experience of being you in society. People need to talk to tell you how that's gonna play out for you