Preferably, I'd have a 4:3 OLED TV or laser projector at a decent enough size that it can just comfortably show all kinds of formats.
My desktop is 21:9, my Macbook and Steamdeck are 16:10, my TV and Nintendo Switch are 16:9, and my iPhone is some weird aspect ratio. So it's not like I'm not used to varying formats. And I actually like it when movies take liberties with the screen format instead of forcing everything into 16:9 just because it's the common TV format.
Once it’s large enough it doesn’t matter what the aspect ratio is. Just make it the exact size of the wall in your TV room. :)