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Archer6621today at 11:55 AM2 repliesview on HN

It's a nice post, with a lot of valuable insights. There is one that I disagree with though: "Never abandon the root node".

There are plenty of instances that show that in reality this is not what happens, and in fact this is often a necessary step of reinventing yourself if things really aren't working for you. The mid-life crisis is a famous example of this, or even the quarter-life crisis. In some specific psychological circles this is referred to as "disintegration". Sometimes carefully backtracking is simply not enough, and growth needs this kind large shock to the system.


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inigyoutoday at 1:22 PM

FWIW existential crises can strike at any part of life, so naming them like that is outdated.

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ectotoday at 12:13 PM

He wouldn't know.