Heretical view: intelligent alien life is everywhere swimming around us. We are just not capable of really understanding it. When a human walks past an ant, maybe the ant senses the shadow and the blockage of the sun.. but it isn't equipped to recognize the human. Likewise, I suspect we are in a similar situation where even our smartest minds and best scientifically advanced sensors are simply incapable of properly detecting these forms. Remember, the average age difference between planets in our galaxy is roughly 2 billion years... just imagine that an alien life 2 billion years older than humans have found easier ways to travel than little metal flying saucers. The question then may be if it's ever possible for us to sense these higher (plausibly extra dimensional) creatures. I suspect this will be a more fruitful direction to investigate rather than assuming we just happen to be the only exotic intelligent life in the galaxy.
the assumption appears to be that intelligent life would wish to expand. the expansion drive makes sense for purely biological life as it arose by natural evolution, technologically advanced life isn't going to stay purely biological for long however.
interstellar expansion is going to be a huge hassle, at a minimum you are going to be mass constrained and require a long period of investment in fuel (such as antimatter production) during which your competitors that chose to stay in the solar system will gain an edge and may strike before you leave. there isn't going to be MAD in space once you no longer rely on your planet of origin for anything truly important.
we should actually be deeply worried about the space race, because the early adopters will be making nukes out there and may come back to yank up the ladders.
Have you seen that website that shows the solar system if the moon were only one pixel? [1]
Getting from the Sun to Pluto takes a very long time you might give up and close your browser tab.
Many theories attempt to explain why we haven’t yet encountered extraterrestrial civilizations. One possibility is that, given the immense scale of the cosmos, intelligent life may exist but is simply too far away for contact. Another idea is that while life may arise on other planets, it rarely, if ever, evolves beyond primitive intelligence. Intelligence here defined as ability to understand the cosmos and even leave their own world.
But there is another, more sobering theory. It suggests that when life does evolve to the point of intelligence, it eventually develops technology so powerful that it inadvertently brings about its own destruction. Whether through war, environmental collapse, or uncontrollable advancements, these civilizations may end themselves before they have a chance to explore the universe, or be found by others. This concept just described is called The Great Filter. The Great Filter proposes that there is some critical barrier or stage in the evolution of intelligent life that is extremely hard to surpass. [a]
There's a Wikipedia page dedicated to nuclear close calls between the United States and the former Soviet Union, and also present Russia. [2]
Perhaps the most famous close call is the one involving Vasily Arkhipov during the Cuban Missile Crisis [3] [2]
“Man has dominated man to his injury.” — Ecclesiastes 8:9
The Great Filter need not be caused by the intelligent beings themselves and can be natural like the asteroid impact that wiped out the dinosaurs. It's said that asteroids of varying sizes crash into Earth every X million years.
There's a counter argument to the Fermi paradox that perhaps we are too primitive for advanced alien beings to bother with us. One of my internet friends put it like this -
"there are counter arguments to the fermi paradox; one of which hires the analogy of, iirc, a guy looking over at a group of insects/anthill/ worms. he doesn't go wondering whether those worms are sentient enough to meditate on his thoughts. he doesn't think to sit back to converse with them. hell, they wouldn't understand him even if he tried. the paradox only holds water on the assumption that such civilisation is within the scope of our comprehension. " [4]
But there's a counter to that counter argument.
Yes it's possible that we're too primitive for advanced civilizations to bother about. But even in the case of ants and humans, isn't it true that we sometimes try to interfere with their lives just to see how they'd react either for fun or just sheer curiousity?
Yes, it's true that we might not be able to comprehend alien species. After all, they evolved in worlds different from ours. But, any sufficiently advanced civilization would understand Mathematics. Mathematics is a universal language and for them to be scientifically advanced means they understand science. They could, if they desired, find a way to communicate with earthlings using the universal language - Science. Carl Sagan made this point in one of his books and I think it was Pale Blue Dot (highly recommended).
I've shared some of my thoughts about aliens on my blog posts which my comment here were from. [4] [5]
[1] https://www.joshworth.com/dev/pixelspace/pixelspace_solarsys...
[2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nuclear_close_calls
[3] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasily_Arkhipov
[4] https://www.rxjourney.net/extraterrestrial-intelligence-and-...
>Earth's television and radio broadcasts would only be detectable at distances up to 0.3 light-years, less than 1/10 the distance to the nearest star.
This is what I always thought was one of the major problems - unless an alien civilization is directly targeting Earth, we would never detect them. And our EM emissions are too weak to be detected by other aliens unless they stumble near us for some reason.