> Will my kids be an ethnic minority in their own country in the next generation - and if so, what's that going to be like for them?
Are you sure they are not more concerned about 'Will my kids be able to get a good job, own a house and generally be at least as prosperous as me, if not more?'
That's item 2.
But they won't get good jobs or own a house because they will be second class citizens. Your generation made poor choices and they will suffer.