For what its worth, I am part of the very young men you mention* (currently 18) and I have talked to people my age on discord who use Linux.

My opinion is that I think that cachyos is a much more suitable option over omarchy.

Personally out of so many of the distros that I have tried including Omarchy, I found Cachyos to be somewhat perfectly balanced (atleast for me).

So I highly recommend Cachyos if you haven't already!

(On a side note: Fedora is something that I wish to try a bit more as well to be honest and for servers, I mostly use debian/ubuntu or alpine)