The UI threading model is usually not the problem.

The problem usually comes from inappropriately arranging the systems of record such that information needs to be communicated beyond the scope of one computer in order to satisfy a single logical request.

Moving information between physical processors tends to be significantly more expensive than local computation over that same information. JSON serialization is a really good example of this. You need a network with bandwidth in excess of 10 GbE to begin overtaking simdjson.

SSR or SPA doesn't really matter if the server still takes a minimum of 300ms to compose any kind of response due to how its database or other infrastructure is set up. Information theory doesn't care how clever your loading indicator is. If the information isn't available, we can't do anything meaningful. Stringing the user along with psychological tricks is a lot cheaper than hiring a skilled developer to do it the right way.