The difficulties that even experienced programmers have with SQL are far more than just the syntax. And, given what most people need the database for, that difficulty is pretty disproportionate to the complexity of the task.
I think the “it’s just syntax bro, learn it!” critique is about as ill-fitting as the claim that embedding a scripting language in a larger program is pointless because “assembly/C89 is just syntax bro, learn it!”
I take what you’re saying about difficulty being disproportionate to the task as an indicator of ability.
It’s literally so damn simple to knock out a database & some crud functions either as a desktop app or a website that the complaints in this thread are hilarious.