Your experience mirrors my own. I don't know if he coined the term, but Steve Yegge talks about 'heresies' that creep in to a system -- untrue things that stick around and permanently influence its behavior. I still find that these happen regularly and stopped using self-managing memory systems because they make heresies even harder to diagnose and remove.

Within projects, I make heavy use of path-scoped rules to intentionally bring context where it's needed, and also make heavy use of temp directories. LLMs are more than happy to produce ad-hoc memories/summaries/context docs that I can then point a session to, but I can be selective and intentional about it.

I like that memoryfield is portable, intentional and composable. I'm not convinced that sharing memoryfields between users will be practical, but I keep isolated virtual environments for absolutely everything. I like the idea of being able to intentionally bring collections of managed context around with me. There are other ways to do that, but will keep an eye on this.