When we're out in public? Yes.

If its time sensitive? Yes.

Like I said, its something that's annoying, but this is the cost of keeping my privacy. My wife uses Apple for all her stuff and she understands. By any account I wouldn't say this is a "burden" per se. She opens the app, hits a few buttons and hits sends. Hardly something that I would consider a burden.

I mean, that is the nature of marriage. You both shoulder burdens for each other

Of course, privacy seeking is a selfish personality trait. I'm protecting myself, everyone else be damned.