I agree sql is more elegant. The problems arise when you have to add logic on top of sql. Often I end up constructing queries via string manipulation and that is not very ergonomic. Polars api is more verbose and complex than sql but at least it's not meta-programming.

The duckdb python api is okay, but it is a bit limited, no ctes, no as of join, and it can be slow at bind/interpretation time when you do stuff like unioning multiple relations in a loop (I think that becomes O(N^2), but I might be wrong). Most issues can be worked around, but Polars is designed from the ground up to be used from python.