The intro section is a good summary of why distributed SQL databases (Spanner, roach, Yugabyte, TiDB) haven't taken off in the market in the same way as say distributed data warehouses have (Snowflake, Databricks, FabricDW, Clickhouse, etc.).
I would add a few other things to the list of scaling problems. Some SQL features are hard to scale out (auto_increment/serial columns, unique secondary keys, foreign keys, etc.). Some SQL query operators are hard to scale out for OLTP queries that want low latency and high throughput (DISTINCT, LIMIT/TOP-N, non-collocated joins). I take it SpacetimeDB is a nosql database, so these problems are less important to them?
As to how spacetimedb plans to scale out, I didn't follow it fully. It's hard to take the spacetimedb folks seriously (see: https://strn.cat/posts/spacetime/).
I've pushed teams to choose Spanner over using Postgres (when already in the GCP ecosystem). It's not really more expensive when you sit down and do the math, you save untold hours of maintenance over the lifespan of the app, and it actually scales without fuss.
I'm a cofounder of SpacetimeDB (and the author of OPs article). The https://strn.cat/posts/spacetime/ article has several substantial errors. I've spoken with Vicent directly about them.
Most notably, almost the entire commentary about durability is incorrect. SpacetimeDB does not acknowledge anything before data is fully persisted to disk, even though he claims it does. Clients CAN chose to listen before that, but you can do the same thing in Postgres if you want.
There is no 50 ms delay to writing to disk. The article is mostly nonsense.
Ask Claude yourself: https://github.com/clockworklabs/SpacetimeDB
He spent 15 minutes looking at our code (by his own admission), having never written a database storage engine before AFAIK, and made a pronouncement that SpacetimeDB wasn't a good database. Crazy stuff.