> you may use tab characters in a different way than most people seem to

As far as I'm aware there are three primary and entirely independent uses for tabs. Indentation, field separation, and typesetting. When it comes to typesetting and also to display of fields with a narrow maximum width the concept of a tabstop is useful.

Boneheaded things with tabs was in reference to code editors (where tabs are more or less exclusively used for indentation) most often failing to provide the ability to disable tabstop. In practice this generally hasn't been a point of friction because until fairly recently the most popular languages (ie C & co) didn't support constructs that would lead to adding any indentation outside of the prefix of a line.