This style of argument is nonsense because deciding between Android and Apple has about a hundred unrelated but equally important consequences. There is no choice that aligns with all of your wishes (and rights).

Privacy? Just buy Apple (largely an urban legend at this point, but regardless).

Actual ownership? Just buy Android.

Security? Just buy Apple (or Pixel with GrapheneOS).

Repairability? Just buy one of these 4 Android models.

Headphone jack? lol.