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randusernametoday at 2:05 PM3 repliesview on HN

It's also about where you go with your struggles.

Do you go home and talk to your spouse? Do you go to church and talk with your pastor? Do you go to your therapist or to the local bar?

> Comfort with mental health care has become another facet of political sorting in the U.S.

I'm skeptical. Bars and churches and friends are way cheaper and more accessible in red states. It's hard enough to get poorer, less educated men comfortable going to the doctor, let alone a therapist.


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groundzeros2015today at 2:34 PM

The enlightened blue state men go to the pay-to-care secular priest instead?

Also missing from this perspective. What do people who are not from western countries do?

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watwuttoday at 3:02 PM

Friend, priest, acquittance at the bar and mental health professional are 4 different roles. Your therapist is not your friend, will refuse to play that role. Your therapist is also not your religious leader and wont speak into those considerations.

And conversely, neither priest nor friend will be able to deal with actual mental health issue you have.

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embedding-shapetoday at 2:17 PM

> Bars and churches and friends are way cheaper and more accessible in red states.

Just as a curiosity, as I don't have any experience of red states myself, how easy would it be for a closet homosexual to come out and get support from their bar, churches and friends in a red state, typically?

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