> For loads with over 20k rows/s and people pushing changes, you may need a full-time person to handle the cluster and take a look at the crazy queries people are going to write.

I think this was a benefit of DBA culture in previous eras. Not that the DBAs were specifically necessary to write good queries (often they'd need to work with application teams to guide them towards schemas/behavior that worked well) or to maintain the database (managed DB offerings obsolete a lot of this work), but because they functioned as gatekeepers and rate-limiters of what queries and schemas could exist.

In that mode, DBAs functioned a bit like a human/process version of a thin microservice wrapping database access functionality. A big benefit was that the rate of change of queries/schema changes/access patterns was controlled and had a higher probability of being reviewed and thought about by humans before it went live. This also resulted in an increased end-database-user culture of trying to make existing schemas/query patterns work before jumping straight to bespoke access patterns. That culture's not what you want as e.g. a startup or pro-rapid-big-refactors shop, but it is what you want when your DB reliability needs or query rate/dataset size are high.

I don't think it's a given that a gatekeeper team is worth the overhead and cost; that's situational. I do think that the code version of that team (aforementioned microservice that wraps DB accesses/schema changes and nothing else) is usually not worth the cost. In my experience, that pretty much always reduces reliability and free performance gains that come from using direct DB clients from user code.