Ah yes that’s indeed true.
But from the Earth’s reference frame wasn’t the Pluto activity I mentioned earlier simultaneous with what happened 5 hours ago on Earth?
So couldn’t you say from Earth’s reference frame this black hole’s activity happened simultaneously with events 20 million years ago?
As an approximation it can be fine to speak that way in practical matters, but it's dangerous to go drawing any deep conclusions while doing so. Approximations shouldn't be allowed to go outside their operational parameters.