This question reads a little ambiguously. The first way I could read it is that you're genuinely concerned about my mental health as a mainly-volunteer open source developer. The second way to read it is a direct accusation. Can you please clarify?

I'm not that commenter, but I wouldn't were I that person. There's a lot more self-responsibility involved with a Comma system than what Tesla advertises as "Full self Driving." It's the difference between blaming Ford for bad factory breaks versus aftermarket parts the consumer made themselves.