The people getting made richer are the people who already have connections and power. People quip about how capitalism is the worst economic system except for all the others, but its actual property is that it's inevitable without external pressures preventing it from happening -- people who have money (power) are able to use it to claim more money (power). If even a few people choose to exercise that privilege and that privilege isn't curtailed by other mechanisms, the current "wealth inequality" or whatever you want to call it is inevitable. Your girlfriend's crime was writing malware while poor, not writing malware.