> You are still storing an exact point in time in both cases.
No this is not correct. You store two different intents. Suppose you want a reminder in your calendar every day at 15:00 for the next 7 days. It should not change if DST changes in the middle of the seven days. It should not change if legislation of my timezone changes. How do you encode this? A UTC timestamp for each of the seven days will change the hour if the DST changes or the timezone changes. So what you can do is store a datetime _without_ a timezone, exactly reflecting what the user entered when creating the calendar entry, which is "2026-09-29 15:00:00", "2026-09-30 15:00:00", etc. This is the intent wanted by the user, which is a "sticky" time in their calendar. These are not exact points in time, since timezones can and will change (DST), so the "physical" instant of 15:00 can be a different "actual" (as in, the sun has a different position, earth rotation is different) time when comparing the days. Instead, these are exact times in 7 days only in a (specific) calendar.
That system you described is quite rare - it would have to poll N databases of N possible events constantly to see if it should give you a reminder. Which is why none of the common calendar systems do that.
They just create events, which have a time zone and represent and exact point in time. And they don't change the event or when you get notified when you change time zones.