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SoftTalker • yesterday at 6:41 PM • 1 reply • view on HN

Yes this definitely happens. School events, or having a groups of kids who are together on a soccer team, brings a group of parents together. But in my experience they are relationships of convenience. I've never formed any friendships from this that have persisted after the kids got older, dispersed to other schools/teams or went off to college. Without that common focus (the kids) the adults realize they actually don't enjoy each other's company all that much.


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Aurornis • yesterday at 6:47 PM

> Without that common focus (the kids) the adults realize they actually don't enjoy each other's company all that much.

That's too bad. I would say most of the other parents I meet aren't people I'd hang out with outside of kid events, but when you go to a lot of events you meet so many other adults that your odds of finding new friends goes up substantially