You're shifting things from normally needing to fully drain and fill the pool multiple times a year from specific contamination events to now talking about routine backwashing events, which I agree do happen as a part of normal routine maintenance (a part of the "partial drain" and "good filtering" I was talking about before).
I agree you'd probably use something like 5-10k liters of water for a backflush for filters that size, but that wouldn't normally be a daily thing. The amounts needed here would be highly variable depending on a wide range of factors.
I still stand by if you're having to actually fully drain and refill your pool multiple times a year (as in, an actual drain and fill, not slow partial replacement from weekly/every other week filter flushes) you're either very unlucky or you don't know what you're doing maintaining the pool.