Donald Trump has very clearly and explicitly threatened to attack civilian infrastructure in Iran: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-politic...
Even the most charitable interpretation of this comment suggests that Trump is okay letting Iranians grow up in a country without electricity, clean water and denied any humanitarian aid. You'll note that many defense commentators called this a threat to commit war crimes, which the US has already supported through it's proxies like the IDF.