I share the same sentiment. I de-Googled myself except for YouTube, but still wouldn't want my Gmail banned.
That's why I've gone to using open models, they are getting there slowly. A bit much of hand-holding but that's fine by me. If a customer of mine decides to use Google's models, I will have them sign a disclaimer that I'm not responsible of them getting insta-banned or similar. I just can't recommend it.
You can always use a broker such as OpenRouter to use their models.