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throwinthisaway • yesterday at 8:37 PM • 7 replies • view on HN

Frankly I believe the whole “warps the mind of men to abuse women” is total nonsense.

I’ve watched plenty of porn in my life, probably a bit more than average. I’ve never done anything out of the norm or unwanted to woman, let alone abuse one.

I think shitty people will be shitty people and it’s just a really easy thing to point at instead of taking responsibility for it. It’s also a convenient plausible sounding correlation for people who already want to ban porn to use.


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krrrh • yesterday at 11:42 PM

> I’ve never done anything out of the norm or unwanted to woman, let alone abuse one

Yeah the Dworkin contention that porn turns men into rapists has basically been disproven.

But there’s no reason to say “warps the minds of men” has to lean in that direction. Reading forums of young men who have porn addictions and grew up with HD hardcore porn it seems more like the opposite happened, they become more withdrawn, less likely to engage with women enough to develop social skills, less able to perform sexually irl and subject to porn-induced erectile dysfunction. When it was just magazines and socially stigmatized VHS rentals it was unheard of for college aged men to take viagra, now it’s widespread. Arguably warped minds led to this.

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alpaca128 • today at 12:36 AM

Reminds me of a study[0] I saw recently which concluded that antisocial behaviour from drunk people seems to stem mostly from antisocial people consuming alcohol.

[0] https://academic.oup.com/alcalc/article/43/2/204/122225?logi...

QuiEgo • today at 2:20 AM

This reminds me of the whole "playing video games causes violent behavior" stream of thought. Like people, I do not think CounterStrike is real nor do I want to engage in gun battles to the death in real life.

Ma8ee • today at 3:09 AM

I’m quite sure porn impacts what is considered “the norm”.

BobaFloutist • yesterday at 9:41 PM

If you change the argument to "can warp the mind of some men", it becomes much harder to falsify.

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schrodinger • yesterday at 8:40 PM

Agreed. It’s like the argument that video games cause shooters.

Umm, I played plenty of GTA growing up and I’ve never stolen a car. People are actually very good at separating fantasy from reality, believe it or not.

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lokar • yesterday at 8:41 PM

I can see the argument for a “correlation vs causation “ argument, but I’m not a social scientist.