> My ownership of my machine depends on strict, broad + fine grained control over what third-party devs (who are not me) get to do with my machine. Our interests are incompatible and hostile, in an era where most "native apps" ship analytics and marketing SDKs, or are videcoded. If macOS didn't offer these controls I would run every apps in a browser where it's sandboxed. This isn't the 90s.
There are benefits to sandboxing F/OSS too, but most of what you describe there are problems with proprietary software published by for-profit corporations and have dramatically less applicability to anything else.