For what it's worth, my first Apple was a IIe, followed by a 512K Macintosh, and I still have a first-edition NeXTWorld magazine I bought at the time.
The definition of quality in the Apple world isn't quite the same as in the nerd world, much as an Alfa Romeo fan and a Toyota fan may mean different things by quality. Joy and reliability both matter, and it's very easy for people who value them differently to end up talking past each other.
Yeah, the distortion field exists for a reason, given Liquid Glass, Swift UI issues, Tahoe and Golden Gate bugs, it is hard to have joy when they prevent work on premium hardware.