Yes we do care and many of us have set the privacy settings to certain things over the years

But this is where friends are and don't give me 'you could just call them'

Not everyone has access to email/phone. Facebook should work in theory, if they weren't so enthusiastic about intentionally eroding privacy (physically changing the privacy options). Multicast. I post some status to multiple people at once. I can find people I don't already know/have lost touch with, and connect with them

What Meta does, does not mean its users don't care and I wish you people would stop saying that