alt Hacker NewsI just dealt with this due to the impending termination of .name email. I use a combination of gmail as my mail agent, CloudFlare for the domain, and SMTP2Go for low volume outbound with SPF, DKIM, and DMARC. I don't have any Apple usage or requirements.
Oh, I just remembered that I send mail received by my CloudFlare domain to both gmail and zohomail, and use Thunderbird as the mail agent for the latter.
Hmm interesting service this smtp2go, $0 for up to 1000 emails/month.
If you run your personal mail on this and not automated notifications it's basically free, but how many spam lists are this kind of services on?